Tuesday, January 24, 2017

How Trump faced a sexual misconduct claims from Apprentice contestant – as it happened

A former contestant on the Apprentice, Summer Zervos, on Friday accused Donald Trump of groping or aggressively kissing her on two separate occasions in 2007, when she met the businessman in private for what she thought were going to be discussions about job opportunities. Often speaking through tears, Zervos read a prepared statement in the Los Angeles offices of her lawyer, Gloria Allred. Earlier today, another woman, Kristin Anderson, told the Washington Post Trump had groped her at a New York nightclub in the early 1990s.

Speaking in Greensboro, North Carolina, at the same time as Zervos, Trump dismissed the allegations of Jessica Leeds, who alleged that Trump assaulted her in the first-class cabin of an airplane in 1979. “The only way they figure they can slow it down is to come up with people that are willing to say, ‘Oh, I was with Donald Trump in 1980! I was sitting with him on an airplane! And he went after me on the plane!’” Trump said dismissively. “Yeah, I’m gonna go after you. Believe me - she would not be my first choice, that I can tell you. Man. You don’t know - that would not be my first choice.”
Meanwhile, another accuser says that she is fleeing the country because of threats to her life from Trump supporters.
Trump surrogate Ben Carson unleashed on live TV this morning, asking to “turn off” the microphone of a female journalist who questioned if he was accusing the women who say Trump harassed them of being liars, during an appearance MSNBC’s Morning Joe. Carson raised the idea that the female accusers against Donald Trump may not be honest, noting that “I do have common sense, and for instance, if somebody’s sitting next to you in the first class section of the airplane - there are stewardesses, there are other people around, and there’s this gigantic arm rest,” a reference to Jessica Leeds who says Trump groped her in on a plane.
Trump told a radio host in 2004 that actress Lindsay Lohan was likely “great in bed” because she was “probably deeply troubled.” “She’s probably deeply troubled and therefore great in bed,” Trump told Howard Stern, according to CNN. “How come the deeply troubled women, you know, deeply, deeply troubled, they’re always the best in bed? For some reason, what I said is true,” Trump continued. “It’s just unbelievable. You don’t want to be with them for long term, but for the short term there’s nothing like it.”

3 Things Women Wish Men Did In Bed

Allana Pratt, Intimacy Expert shares top three ‘moves’ her female clients WISH their man did in bed...
I find it so funny that my male clients think women don’t want sex as much as men do! Not true! We love sex! We just may need a little more time to warm up, be wooed and savor the foreplay...

1. Make More Eye Contact: My female clients complain that men don’t look at them in the eyes enough. They feel left out if he closes his eyes the whole time, or only look at parts of their body... which makes them feel like a piece of meat not a work of art. Mix it up!

2. Stay With Us No Matter What: Sex for women is often a place to release stress, past hurts, emotional wounds and we cry, freak out, get naughty, all sorts of unexpected delicious things. Please don’t judge us, nor take it personally. Just stick with us through the emotional waves.

3. Stay Open for More to COME: Many women have no idea they are multi-orgasmic because no offense, yet after you come, many of you are done... yet what if we aren’t? Stay connected even if you’re not erect, so that we can explore more of our erotic nature.

Some men think you need uber technical tricks to be a great lover, and sure, those help. But most women crave your impeccable presence more than anything to splay their body mind and spirit wide open to you.


Remember to spread out your desire for sex with your woman throughout the  day... a sexy text, a sensual touch as she’s making lunch for the kids... that way she won’t think ‘you’re only after one thing’ and she’ll be far more receptive to your advances, and perhaps even proactive have her way with YOU!

9 Pieces Of Advice Married Couples Wish They Had Known On Their Wedding Day

No one wants to live their life in the world of “shoulda, coulda, woulda“ — especially when it comes to something as important as getting married.

Luckily for all you future brides and grooms out there, a Reddit thread popped up Sunday asking those who have already tied the knot what they wish they had known on their wedding day.

Here’s their advice for your Big Day and all the days after:

1. Take time to appreciate your surroundings. 
“At some point in the evening while everyone is having dinner and talking amongst themselves, take a moment to look around at all the people who are there for the two of you, and take it all in.”

2. Focus on what really matters. 
“I wish I had known that the most important thing about my wedding day was that I got to marry and spend the rest of my life with my best friend - so who cares if the napkins were placed on plates or tables?”

3. Your wedding day is fun, but marriage is even better.
“What is more fun than having sleepovers every night with your BFF? Or having spontaneous couch dates? Marriage is fun. There will be challenges, but anything worth having is worth the effort.”

4. Keep the drinks to a minimum. 
“Whether you’re paying for the alcohol or friends start buying you drinks — don’t drink too much at your wedding. I barely remember the end of our reception and we were both too drunk to have the wild mind blowing sex that I assumed comes with your wedding night . Feeling terrible the day after and having my memories be hazy is something I would change.”

5. No matter how much planning you do, something is bound to go wrong. 
“Something will go wrong, I guarantee it. Whether it’s an important guest that can’t make it, the wrong flowers arrive or the food is off, something won’t be perfect despite all your planning. Expect it, and happily move on when it happens. The wedding is so short, you don’t want to spend any of it unhappy or frustrated about something that really doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things.”

6. The most important person at your wedding is your future spouse.
“It doesn’t matter who can and can’t show up. All that matters is you’re there with the one you love.”

7. Accept that the person you marry today, may change in 20 years.
“You know how you’re a vastly different person from who you were as a kid? Well, you never stop changing. This means you’re marrying a future person who will bear little resemblance to the wonderful, soft-focus target of your current infatuation.”

8. It’s your day, so feel free to delegate. 
“The bride and groom shouldn’t have any responsibilities on their wedding day other than showing up and getting married. Any questions or problems with the setup and scheduling or anything else should go to the best man or a member of the immediate family who has been designated with that job.”

9. Be aware that it goes by way too fast. 
“It really will go by in the blink of an eye.”


Wednesday, January 18, 2017

Sex scandal: Chidinma Okeke, alleged blackmailer appear in Lagos court

Former Miss Anambra, Chidinma Okeke, reportedly appeared in a Lagos court on Tuesday for the arraignment of one those allegedly behind the sex scandal which cost her the title.
Okeke, who won the 2015 Miss Anambra pageant, found herself in a scandal after a lesbian sex tape involving her was leaked online. The tape was said to have been made public by some men who blackmailed her with it, even after she reportedly paid them to stop the tape from being made public.
The scandal cost her the title and led to outrage with a group urging the National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking to ban the pageant.
A lawyer, Chukwuemeka Ugwuonye, disclosed her appearance in court for the arraignment of one of the blackmailers in a post on the Facebook page of Due Process Advocates of Nigeria.
“Her appearance is in relation to the arraignment of one of her blackmailers, the man she paid money into his account to avoid the release of the controversial sex video. The man is being arraigned today and we believe the DSS is the agency in charge of the case,” Ugwuonwe wrote, adding that the DPA was not officially involved in the case.

Ebonyi Univarsity lecturer, principals disciplined over sex abuse, misconduct

A senior lecturer with Ebonyi State University was suspended over alleged involvement in sexual harassment of students.
The Commissioner for Education Professor John Eke, addressing journalists, also disclosed that four principals of secondary schools were demoted for various misconducts ranging from absenteeism and other acts inconsistent with their mandate.
Eke said the Ministry was investigating the sex scandal rocking schools across the state, adding that one lecturer in the Ebonyi State University had been placed on indefinite suspension pending the outcome of the reports of sex allegations leveled against him.
“We have zero tolerance of sexual harassment on our children. There is a case in the University where a lecturer was suspended and we are investigating the case and the Ministry is now working on that.”
Similarly, the state government said it would ban teachers who are indicted in examination malpractices from supervising WAEC and other external examinations for five years.
Prof. Eke said the state government had put up various measures to dismantle examination malpractices, describing it as worse than the menace of Boko Haram, adding that since assumption of office his ministry, in line with the policy initiatives of governor Umahi’s administration on education, has categorized measures to tackle examination malpractices into short and long term measures, which he said included banning all teachers colluding with students to cheat in internal and external examinations.
Prof. Eke also said the Ministry was conducting examination and competency tests for all teachers in the state to determine the quality of teachers teaching in the schools across the state within weeks.
He said the examination was not only to ascertain the quality and competency of the teachers, but also to ensure aggressive supervision and monitoring, adding that the teachers would be grouped into various groups to ascertain the areas in which the teachers are to be retrained or retooled.
The Commissioner further disclosed that part of the measures necessary to ensure that Ebonyi improves its performance ratings in WAEC and other examinations would be to make it a requirement for students in Senior Secondary schools to pass internal examinations before they would be allowed to register for any external ones.
On the lingering Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU) crisis, the Commissioner described the Union in Ebonyi state University as illegal, adding that their tenure had long elapsed, and chided the suspended ASUU leadership for misinforming the staff of the state-owned institution.

Lusaka Headteacher Who Lured Pupil With Oranges & Apples For Sex Jailed


A HEADTEACHER of a private school in Lusaka who lured a seven-year-old pupil with oranges and apples before sexually defiling the girl in a classroom has been jailed 30 years with hard labour.
Saul Banda, 49, was hit with the maximum sentence for the crime by Lusaka High Court Judge, Susan Wanjelani yesterday.
Ms Justice Wanjelani said Banda had committed a “heinous and despicable crime” by abusing the minor and the trust the parents had in him as a teacher.
Despite Banda, saying he was sorry for his conduct, the judge said he deserved the maximum sentence and sent him to the gallows for 30 years.Judgement
She said many parents entrusted Banda with their children on grounds that he was running a school, but ended up sexually abusing the girl.
Ms Justice Wanjelani said that the position Banda held, the trust the pupil had in him coupled with the age of the girl were aggravating factors in this matter.
“You committed a heinous and despicable offence against an innocent little girl and betrayed the trust. I, therefore, sentence you to 30 years imprisonment with hard labour,” Ms Justice Wanjelani said
Banda, on the material day, asked the girl to remain behind as the rest of the pupils knocked off and sexually abused her in a classroom after enticing her with oranges and apples.
Banda was convicted of defilement by Lusaka Magistrate Ireen Wishimanga last year in June but she referred him to the High Court for sentencing as her subordinate court had no mandate to decide a
sentence in a crime with a prescribed minimum sentence of 15 years.
Passing judgment in the matter yesterday, Ms Justice Wanjelani said that Banda committed a heinous and despicable offence against an innocent little girl who had trust in him.

The Kind of Women You Should Never consider in Marriage

If you are just about to get married, then you need to settle down and go through this so as not to make any mistake.
1. Spoiled
While fathers love to spoil their daughters, little girls should not grow up to be spoiled women. There is nothing wrong with liking good things and wanting a man to provide for his family. However, when a woman feels entitled to things without making an equal contribution, she is not cut out for a successful marriage. To spoil is to change the character of something because of “excessive indulgence.” If a woman’s character has been compromised because of wealth or material things, stay away from her.
 2. Lazy
Laziness is often a byproduct of being spoiled, but some people are lazy without being spoiled. A solid work-ethic is important for a happy marriage. If both spouses aren’t willing to work, marriage will be very difficult. Work-ethic isn’t about drawing a paycheck, it’s about consistently making the effort required for a successful life. Whether at a job, around the house, or in the relationship, laziness will kill a marriage. If a person is lazy while dating, they will likely be just as lazy, if not more so, when married.
 3. Unstable
 Emotional stability is often overlooked as a key characteristic of a good spouse, yet it’s importance should be obvious. When someone is emotionally stable, they are reasonably predictable. In nearly every case, we know how they will respond. However, when someone is emotionally unstable, we never know what we are going to get. They might laugh at a situation one time and fly off the handle the next time. They might receive a comment as a compliment on one day but then be deeply hurt by the same words the next day. The unpredictable responses can paralyze a spouse. When looking for a spouse, find someone who is emotionally stable.
 4. Unfaithful
 While adultery is devastating no matter the relationship, when women are unfaithful it is even less likely a relationship will endure. Maybe it’s because men are less forgiving. More likely it is because when women have an affair the relationship is already in deeper trouble. But no matter the situation, any hint of unfaithfulness while dating should cause a man to run.
 5. Addiction

No matter how great a woman may be, if she is addicted to drugs, alcohol, gambling or any other destructive behavior, it will likely destroy the relationship. The problem with addiction is the active addict is more in love with their substance than their spouse. While a recovering addict can make a great spouse, an active addict cannot. If you love someone who is in an addiction, tell them to fix the addiction and then give you a call. But do not marry someone in the midst of the struggle.

Tuesday, January 17, 2017

See How a Jealous husband inspects her wifes private parts regularly


A 27-year- old  woman of Kitwe narrated before the Buchi Local Court how her ‘jealous’ husband of seven years inspects her private parts on suspicion that she sleeps with other men in his absence.
This was in a case in which Barbara Musonda sued Phillip Siwale, 34, for reconciliation on grounds that his jealousy is bringing conflict in their marriage.
Musonda complained before senior local court magistrate Nsama Mutono that her husband always inspects her private parts before sleeping with her as a way of proving that she has not slept with other men.
She told the court that she had been living peacefully with her husband from the time the couple got married in 2010, but problems started in 2016 when her husband suddenly became jealous.
Musonda, who is a trader at Chisokone market, complained that even when she buys second-hand clothes from the market, her husband always suspects her of getting them from other men.
But Siwale told the court that he had become jealous because his wife had started receiving mobile phone airtime from unknown people.
He testified that his wife always rushed to other rooms to answer her phone and wondered why this was the case if she had nothing to hide.
Siwale appealed to the court to teach his wife to stop being adulterous.
In reconciling the couple, magistrate Mutono said marriage is love and that love overcomes all human weaknesses.
She advised Musonda to be submissive and truthful to her husband to create trust in their relationship.
“If you know that your husband is suspicious of your shopping, plan and shop together with him. Get permission from him when you want to go somewhere,” she said.
In delivering judgement, magistrate Mutono advised the couple to love and respect each other if their marriage was to flourish.
“Respect your spouse and do not engage in name-calling. Be strong for each other and remember love has no conditions. Forgive, endure and persevere,” magistrate Mutono said.
She also advised Siwale to love his wife whole-heartedly and not conditionally


Real trouble after church head had sex with wife's Niece


THE Matero local court was sent into cold feet upon learning how a church leader had sex with his wife’s niece who had visited from the village.
It was heard that the clergyman took advantage of the girl after his wife was hospitalised for a period of time.
Isaac Mulilo, 37, of Emmasdale, a leader in one of the churches in Lusaka, was forced to have sex with his wife’s niece, Mary, upon gazing at her underwear which she was drying where she used to sleep.
This was a case in which Agnes Mwanza, 28, a hair dresser of Luangwa Township sued her husband, Isaac Mulilo, 37, of Emmasdale for divorce.
Mwanza told senior court magistrate Pauline Newa that the two got married in 2010 and had one child. Dowry was partly paid.
She said there was never a time when the couple had peace in their marriage because Mulilo started beating her when their son was only three weeks old.
Mwanza told the court that her husband started having sex with her niece from the village the time she was hospitalised due to an ovary problem which developed in 2015.
“At around 04:00 hours I became suspicious because he woke up and followed my niece and later on he got a basin and went outside to wash himself and when I followed him, he said he had diarrhoea,” Mwanza said.
Mwanza said her husband had even reached the extent of not bathing from home and shunning eating, a matter she reported to the church bishop.
She said the problem escalated and the two started fighting and in the process she sustained a knee injury.
Mwanza said Mulilo had even saved her name in his phone as January 18 and saved another woman as girlfriend.
In defence, Mulilo said he still loved his wife but blamed her for being quick in taking action when she did not have any proper evidence.
He, however, denied making love to Mary in court stating that the reason he had earlier admitted was because he respected the girl’s uncle so much.
Passing judgment, magistrate Newa granted the couple divorce.
The magistrate ordered Mulilo to compensate Mwanza K7,000 with initial payment of K1,000 followed by monthly installments of K300.
She also told Mulilo to be paying Mwanza K300 for child maintenance and share the property between themselves.

A 30-Year-Old Virgin Man needs your Help!

Dear Readers,
I am 30-year-old male, born and brought up in Benue but lives in Lagos now. My problem is that I find it really hard to socialize and I can only carry on a good conversation with selected people. Also, I find it difficult to control my sexual desire since I am a virgin with no experience with girls whatsoever, not even a kiss. I feel like I have missed out on a lot of fun in life. And now, I have reached a point in life where most of my friends are married or have girlfriends.
Every day I feel like an idiot for not having a girlfriend. Is it normal for man to be a virgin, sexless with no girlfriends at 30 years of age. Will I ever get those days of fun back?Please Help

The Driver who slept his friends wife confessed that she forced him

According to reports, a taxi driver got more than he bargained for recently after he was caught smashing his friend’s wife near his house in Lusaka.
The man identified as Patrick usually drives his friend’s wife to work on a daily basis. He said he was forced to have s*x with her after she failed to pay him for service rendered. His words below:
“After taking her for work in the morning, she told me that she will give me money later in the afternoon after she comes back from work.
I agreed because that is the nature of our work. She later called me around 7.30pm to pick her up from Chilanga were she said she had traveled for work and I agreed.
After picking her up I drove to Lusaka were she resides and I demanded that she pay me my money I have worked for, instead she complained that she didn’t have money and told me to sleep with her.
I tried to insist to just give me my money, but she removed her underwear and squeezed me, it was at this stage I got carried away and slept with her just inside my car.”
The woman’s husband, out of anger, pounced on the driver who is his friend, beating him mercilessly.

Woman Identified as pastors wife caught pant down with another man




It’s another busted cheat scene in Lusaka,Kabwata area but this time it was really disappointing . A pastor caught his wife right in the act with their Garden boy cheating in his own house. He couldn’t take it that he went really gaga with the man that even the neighbors couldn’t separate them. But what goes up must surely come down.
After the neighbors finally got them separated, the husband (Pastor) was able to share his heartfelt sad grive; he told people at the scene that he worked so hard to keep his wife on check and also to look like other top women but all he got from her was pure disappointment and betrayal, cheating behind his back with their Garden boy.
But, there’s always a reason for any action. You won’t believe the ridiculous disgraceful reason that his cheating wife told people; she actually leaked there bedroom secrets. Instead of her to show full remorse for her stinking deeds, She said her husband doesn’t satisfy her in bed. ” My husband husband doesn’t care about me, all he cares about is his church affairs. I’m tired and I want divorce”